A Nigerian man, Usman Ahmad, has taken to social media to advise men on one of the tests to carry out on a woman before marrying her.
Usman urged men to test their partner’s tolerance level by cheating on her at least twice before their wedding.
According to him, they should intentionally allow her to catch them cheating so that they can be sure she has the spirit of forgiveness and the ‘fear of God.’
Taking to Facebook on Wednesday, January 31, he wrote,
“Before you marry any woman, allow her to catch you cheating at least twice. That way you can be sure of her tolerance level and emotional maturity. That way you can be very sure if she has the fear of God and spirit of forgiveness. Real love is all about forgiveness.”
See his post below,
As expected, his post has sparked a huge controversy on social media, with some agreeing with his stance while others disagreeing with him.
Some assert that a woman should also do the same to test her husband’s maturity level as well.
Read some comments below,
@sammy_a_charles wrote, “This might sound funny, but there some little sense in it, I’m the kind of person that forgive my girl even catching them cheat, I will keep advising her to stop all those stuff so she can have someone trust…. So many things I will be telling her nd she will start apologizing and crying, I think forgiveness is very necessary in any relationship”
@onyxgodwin wrote, “Naija Women are really going through alot… See wetin una suppose choose husbands from”
@deevasecrets wrote, “Okay I hope you will also be kind to her and learn forgiveness too when she gives equal che@ting ”